COFFEE WITH NICOA: Creating A LIFE BY DESIGN.

MANY WOMEN, MANY STORIES: MIRIAM ANSLEY, HUMAN DESIGN

October 27, 2023 NICOA DUNNE CORNELIUS Season 1

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Nicoa Coach:

Grab your coffee and join me Nicoa For a caffeinated conversation about life. I'll be talking to people who have chosen to walk their own paths and just like me, are creating a life by design. I hope it will give you the inspiration you need to do exactly the same. Welcome, everybody. This is Nicoa. This is one of our many women, many stories, series episodes. And I have the beautiful Miriam Ansley. With me today. Miriam, how are you?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

I am fantastic. Thank you for asking. Thank you for the beautiful, that was kind of nice. Thanks.

Nicoa Coach:

Yes, you are quite beautiful. And as is, as are all the women that are participating in this event. And I'm so excited to share a little bit about you and a little bit about what you'll be speaking about at the conference. Because we really want to tease people and attract as many participants as possible, you have a unique background. And I think you and I are kind of speaking the same language and a lot of areas, we're both coaches, we both have backgrounds in, you know, hypnotherapy and transformational coaching, life coaching. But you have some pretty unique tools under your belt. And I'd love for you to maybe give us a little overview of where you focus as a coach, specifically around human design.

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

So with as a human design, so I do quantum human design. Now I am educated in both traditional and Quantum. And so just for everybody kind of knows the difference, quantum human design is really targeted towards the Elevate itself, the person you're becoming, this is where we're going with our soul transformation. So human design, the way that I use it is that so many of us are running around being who we think we're supposed to be. And Human Design is this beautiful tool where I can help you quickly see who you are, understand why you're here, what your sole purpose, and help you understand what you're here to transform and what are your blocks. One of the things that I use my hypnotherapy for is, you know, regressions whether inner child or past life. And using human design. And along with it, the Jean Case, which is based on the human design system, we can very quickly know where we need to go. So really trims down the time, so that you can get on with your purpose and your destiny in this life.

Nicoa Coach:

Well, I'm a little bit familiar with human design, from online research, and I got the app once someone's app. And it turns out I'm a generator. And can you maybe give a little high level of the different elements of human design? And how, you know, if people were just curious, what do we mean by human design?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

Okay, so when human design, basically what it is, is that each of us have an energetic blueprint, right. And it in the human design is your energetic blueprint. The thing about the chart is that we have all of the chart, I know, in human design, people get into the types and they think, Well, I'm not a manifester. So I can't manifest or I'm not a generator, so I can't work all the time, and all this all these different things. But the truth is, is that you have all the chart, the thing is, is I think of it as these are the tools that you brought in, so that you could fulfill the soul curriculum that you came here to fulfill are the types there are five different types. And the types are based on really kind of your energetic aura. And they are based on how you attract or not attract things into your life, then we have your strategy. And this is how you respond to the things that are coming. Your opportunities are making decisions. And then we have your authority. And your authority is really basically you how you specifically hear your intuition through your body. And these are like the and then of course, we have gates and channels. There's many other things. But these three things right here, if you were to only know your type, your strategy and your authority, you could completely transform your life, right? They're

Nicoa Coach:

phenomenal, and I believe you and that sounds very, very uniquely tied into the energy of perception and consciousness and awareness. And once you have those tools under your in your toolkit, then you really do have the power to transform your life and talk a little bit about why you wanted to bring this messaging to the many women many stories calm Friends, how did you even find out about it?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

So I found out about the conference through a group of friends. That is actually we have a group of ladies, we call ourselves to ladies who launch and we're, we're spiritual minded women, and we meet once a month, and have a, you know, I brought brunch together on Sundays. It's amazing. So, why I want to bring this to many women many stories is because I think this is a, it is a piece of the puzzle. It's not the only piece but it is a very strong piece of the puzzle. And one of the in the way that I'm going to present it at this event is we're going to talk about how you use your design to manifest what you want in your life. Because all of us want to create what we want, right? We want to create a life that we really won't only want to stop, you know, which creating the same thing over and over again, like stop having the same boss or the same boyfriend, whatever it is that it is we want to stop doing it. Right, right. Human Design is laid out in a way that I can show you easily how by following your design. And by using this design to help you understand your value and your worth. And, and that loving yourself is how we manifest. And so that's why I want to bring it because it's a tool that I can very quickly give you send you home with so that you can begin making that transformation. So you can elevate the vibration of your heart.

Nicoa Coach:

Yes. And that really is that heart math work, right? That ability to vibrate at a level that is with ease and expansion at the same time to attract exactly what your deepest heart's desires are. And I'm so excited, I can't wait to learn more from you. Because like I said, my little, my little foray into the app and trying to read about it myself was nothing I'm sure that just skim the surface. But I love what you said about ladies who lunch and that you've been having brunch with some like minded women. That's exactly what this event is all about. And the goal is for individuals to share their stories. Could you tell us a little bit more about your story and how you came to be at this level of coaching and awareness? Were you always aware of this? Or did you have some conversion moments in your life?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

I definitely had some conversion moments. So if if we actually let me continue using my human design, so my human design in human design, we have what we call profile lines, and in my profile, loneliness is six. And in so basically what it looks like is the first 30 years of your life looks like a complete disaster.

Nicoa Coach:

Okay, all right, yeah, a little bit.

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

But look like a complete disaster. And then after that, I you kind of become the people watcher because you're afraid that you're going to be the complete disaster. And then somewhere around 50, you really kind of settle in to being like a role model, because you've gained so much wisdom over time. So my, it was a transformation. For me, I began my life, in some very difficult situations, I have been in abusive relationships, I was a single mom for many years, I have, you know, struggle with many things, you know, the not believing that I was worthy, not believing that what I wanted mattered. And I even grew up during a time period where women weren't valued, right. Um, I, over the years, this transformation has just grown and grown and grown. And the more that I grow, the more I am connected with who I truly am. And because of that transformation, that's what I really want to see other women get. And what amazes me is that the younger generation seems to be getting at so much quicker than we did. Right. They just, they're just coming in smarter and wiser. And the energy of the earth is elevators, so it's easier for them to get into it. There's also it's much more available. And so I want to be part of that movement.

Nicoa Coach:

You definitely are. And I think you're right. The other day, I said something to my daughter, I said I'm a little concerned about your friend, she keeps posting pictures of herself, and I just don't want her to be so caught up in her image. And she looked my daughter looked at me and said, she thinks she looks cute. And this was about six months ago. And I was like, Yeah, I know. She goes, Mom, you taught us that. You taught us how to have positive body image and I was like, You know what, now I post pictures of me and I'd say feeling cute, because that is really the shift, you know, this owning of your own way of being and, and like you said, you know, most of us weren't raised in environments where that was fostered at all so I'm really happy copy for you. And I can really tell that you are very grounded in your way of being and you seem very confident. And may I ask your age, I want people to know the age range of people participating in this.

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

I am 65 years young.

Nicoa Coach:

Yes, excellent. I'm 54 years young, and it's the 50s are the best I have to tell you. I mean,

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

he's always kind of afraid of 60s. But 60s has been really good for me. Anyway, I have excellent health still. And most people think I am in my 50s.

Nicoa Coach:

Well, I can tell you, your energy is very vibrant, and you seem very healthy and happy and grounded, as I said, so is there any pieces of advice or things you'd like to share to encourage people to participate in this event?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

Yeah, you know, one of the things that we definitely need on this planet at this moment is for the feminine, to actually join together. So one of the reasons I think that we seem to be in such disarray, I think is because, you know, is for so many years, the feminine energy has been held down, feared, even right in many cultures. This is an opportunity to come together as women just like we do, when we do the women, the you know, the ladies who lunch, right? opportunity to come together as women, and it doesn't mean that we don't like the masculine, we don't like man, it has nothing to do with that. It has to do with owning who we are, and believing that women owned and hold a place in the evolution, and the care and the love of this planet, and of each other. And so an opportunity to join together, to join hands to work together to collaborate, and to let go of the belief that we are in competition with each other because we are not. We, together, we are powerful. And together we are one. And that's what I think it's really about.

Nicoa Coach:

Absolutely. And I'm so grateful that so many women have raised their hand to participate. And I think, you know, one other thing I would add is that this type of collective has Women Helping Women, and helping women give themselves permission to be their authentic selves. And to get past the layers that you've been brainwashed to believe are the only layers you're allowed to wear, the only masks that you're allowed to wear. And that, you know, honestly, the grief and sadness that so many people listening are feeling deep down inside is that inability to access that version of you. You're grieving, right? Yes, I find that sadness comes up for me often. And I I've sit with it. And I'm like, wow, what why am I sad? Look, I have everything I want. But there's still that piece of meat is healing from that past way of being and and I invite people to come and have these conversations with people like you and all the other presenters so that they can learn about that.

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

And then remember your healing ancestral energy as well. But in human design, is that not only re healing our life, we're healing ancestral. And so we heal when we heal. We not only heal ourselves, but we heal the past and we heal the future of our ancestral line.

Nicoa Coach:

Yes, and there's evidently and this is a topic we could talk all day about. But there's also this lineage agreement, I understand that the original familial people, souls, said, This is what we want to gain on our experience in earth. And some people go off and, and want to learn about extreme abundance and wealth, some want to go and learn about health and healing, some want to go and learn about struggle, and that that lineage is part of that familial commitment and experience. Am I Am I right?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

Yeah. So there is there is a certain part of that. Typically, it's done in groups of soul groups, right? So there will be groups of souls that you have kind of traveled through your full Soul Life. So we, you know, we've had human lives, but we have one soul life, right? So that soul, and so we travel together, right? And, and we are choosing to experience different things. So that not so that we just stay in it so that we can transform it. The whole purpose is for us to grow as a soul but also to elevate the earth. So the Earth's energy has been elevating and elevating and elevating. And we're still in that process. In fact, we're in a growth period right now. And so you know, it's So, so beautiful thing, and we're all part of it. And there's a lot of beautiful souls on the earth right now. And this is what we're doing.

Nicoa Coach:

And I think that's why if you're listening to this and you feel led or compelled to join in any way, shape or form over the weekend of November 17, then that must have been part of our agreement for all of us to come together that weekend. So if you're feeling in any way, shape, or form, like, Ah, I'm curious, or I want to participate, please join us. I know after this very short conversation with you, Miriam, that you're going to leave a significant impact, and really get people thinking after your presentation during that week. And so anything else can you share where people can find you if they want to learn more now before meeting you in person?

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

Yeah, so I have on I am on Instagram at Miriam and slay life coach. And then that's also my URL is Miriam Ansley. Life coach.com. That's my website. And you can see and more and more about me, and certainly you can reach out to me at any time, I do have a free Facebook group where I do teach Human Design, quantum human design. I do Akashic Record readings in there. And I do different things like that. It's a beautiful little space, if this is something that you're interested in learning more about, there's a lot to consume there. And it's completely free and a lot of fun. Wonderful. I'd really like to say, if you're feeling that tug, or that you toggle curiosity, I actually believe that we're coming together not only to tell stories, but to raise the energy of the earth and of especially Wilmington, and the in this area. So come help us raise the energy of this area, or raise the energy of this earth because as we gathered together, there's really not much we can do.

Nicoa Coach:

Absolutely. I love the word gather. I can't wait to gather with you, Miriam, and thank you so much for spending time with me on coffee with Nicola.

MIRIAM ANSLEY:

Thank you. Thanks for having me.

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